Hey There! Learn How to Say Hello in Italian with 7 Common Greetings
Chi male comincia, peggio finisce. (A bad beginning makes a bad ending.)
As this Italian proverb indicates, beginnings—like greetings—are very important.
Properly greeting someone might even be considered a fine art.
For instance, when you greet Italians, don’t think a wave and general “Hi!” will suffice to cover everyone in the group. It won’t. You must greet everyone separately.
If you’re under the impression that the ever-popular “Ciao!” is going to get the job done, think again.
And the bacio sulla guancia (kiss on the cheek) gesture? Nope, that’s also not always appropriate.
While saying hello may seem casual, it’s actually a pretty involved process.
Il saluto (the greeting) is the result of many factors.
What version of “hello” to use is determined by the situation, your relationship to the person you’re greeting and even by the anticipation of future dealings—which, hopefully, won’t have a bad ending!
More importantly, it can determine the “flavor” of your relationship—so get off to a good start by saying hello like an Italian native!
A Brief History of Ciao and Why It’s Not Always the Best Choice
Ciao (hello/goodbye) is one word that covers both greeting and leave-taking. It’s similar to the Hawaiian Aloha, the Hebrew Shalom or the French Salut, which all mean hello and goodbye.
It sounds wonderfully informal but it has a decidedly formal origin.
The history of ciao
Ciao comes from the Venetian dialect and is the super-abbreviated version of the original sentiment, S-ciào vostro (I am yours).
It’s generally accepted that originally, the phrase meant “I am your slave,” which established “ownership.” As such, it was originally used as a deferential form of greeting.
Since the phrase was a mouthful, it was shortened to S-ciào.
Then, it was further condensed to become the ciao we recognize today.
The little four-letter word has appeared throughout history in art and literature.
In the 18th century, the prolific writer Carlo Goldini used it in his plays.
Ernest Hemingway was also fond of ciao. He used the expression in “A Farewell to Arms,” which was published in 1929 and is still popular today.
The use of ciao today
These days, the small word is loosely translated to mean “at your service” and is still used widely in Italy. It’s heard everywhere, from the Trevi Fountain to the Italian Alps.
It’s mainly used among very close friends. Ciao is best not said to an older person and never in a formal situation.
Ciao a tutti (hello to all) addresses a large group and is very informal.
Ciao-ciao (bye-bye) is an expression that children often use with each other. It’s also used in children’s television shows and Italian cartoons.
A side note: taxi drivers also love ciao-ciao. I heard it almost every time I left a taxi in Rome!
When Is Cheek Kissing Appropriate in Italian Culture?
Another common form of Italian greeting is cheek greeting, but don’t lean in for that kiss just yet! There are a few things you’ll have to remember about this method of saying hello.
First of all, not every situation calls for a cheek kiss. Expect a handshake in formal settings. And by formal settings, I mean anyone who isn’t close friends or family.
Among family and friends, there’s the cheek kissing move. It’s not an actual kiss, although some do an “air kiss” when they touch cheeks. It’s customary to give two “kisses” (air or just cheek touches), one on each side.
From personal experience, I recommend never going back for a third cheek touch. It isn’t generally done and can lead to an awkward moment.
Some men kiss each other on the mouth, which signifies that there’s an extremely close relationship between the men. It’s usually a greeting (or farewell) reserved for sharing between fathers and sons.
And remember—if you cheek kiss hello, cheek kiss goodbye. It’s one of those bookend-type practices!
The acronym KISS applies to the Italian greeting style—but probably not in the way you’re thinking!
What I’m trying to say is, Keep It Simple and Straightforward.
Let the type of relationship you have with the person you’re greeting determine your choice of greeting. Simple!
Leave the cheek kissing to others unless it’s initiated. In that case, respond with the two-cheek touch. Straightforward!
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There are lots of better choices for greeting than saying ciao or cheeking it. Let’s check them out:
1. Buon giorno (Good day/Good morning)
Buon giorno literally means “good day” and is a wonderfully straightforward—yet versatile—expression.
It has a dual purpose and can be used both to say hello and goodbye. This one’s an excellent, can’t-go-wrong greeting.
If you’re heading out in the morning and pass il portiere (the concierge) in the hotel lobby, it’s nice to nod and say, “Buon giorno.”
Chances are, you’ll get a polite “Buon giorno” in return!
This little phrase is a traveler’s best friend, expression-wise.
2. Buon pomerrigio (Good afternoon)
Buon pomerrigio means “good afternoon” but, honestly, it’s not widely used in everyday settings.
It’s seen on television and in movies and is perfectly acceptable but it’s often neglected in favor of another greeting—which we’ll discuss in a moment.
But don’t be surprised if you’re watching a popular Italian drama series and hear the phrase!
3. Buona sera (Good evening)
Buona sera is technically meant for use in the evening (or when the evening is approaching) but, honestly, it’s used from midday on.
In fact, if you say buona sera any time after il pranzo (lunch), no one will think anything of it—besides thinking that you’re being wonderfully cordial.
And you can certainly expect a buona sera in return for your effort!
4. Buona notte (Good night)
Buona notte means “good night” but isn’t used the way Americans use it, as a bedtime expression.
Italians say buona notte in passing or when meeting up anytime past early evening.
Meeting friends at a chic restaurant for dinner? Buona notte is the best way to greet everyone!
5. Piacere (Nice to meet you)
Piacere is a little on the formal side. Okay, it’s a lot on the formal side.
But this word is perfect if you’re meeting a new colleague or even your new boyfriend’s uncle.
Sometimes formal works!
6. Come stai?/Come va? (How are you?)
Come stai and come va are both pretty casual ways to greet someone.
While neither actually says “hello,” the greeting is implied when you inquire about someone’s health.
Responses to this greeting vary.
You might reply così così (so so).
Sto bene (I’m good) and non c’è male (not too bad) are both acceptable replies, as well.
7. Salve (Hello)
Salve is a proper greeting that’s great for meeting new people or when saying hello in somewhat formal situations.
It makes a good impression, so if you’re in doubt over which greeting to use, this is a safe choice!
Let’s face it. First meetings are important—in any language.
Power up your Italian with these simple phrases and say hello in style with absolutely no awkwardness or indecision.
But remember: The appropriate version of “hello” is situational and determined by several factors—so choose wisely!
Buona fortuna! (Good luck!)
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Italian greetings: how to say hello in Italian
How to say hello in Italian
by Gloria Spagnoli | 28/12/2016
It’s a fact. Greetings are one the very first things we learn in a new language. So, my question for you is: do you already know how to say hello in Italian?
You can’t come to Italy without first knowing how to say hello when you meet someone. And to do so, you need to remember something important:
when speaking Italian, you have to mark the difference between formal and informal register.
For instance, you can’t say ciao to a complete stranger. You would sound a bit awkward and rude.
Similarly, you can’t say buongiorno when you meet your best friend.
So, here’s a brief guide that will show you how to say hello in Italian in the right way.
CIAO → ciao is the most common Italian greeting and you can use it both during the day and during the evening. You can use it with your friends, when talking to young people and more generally in informal contexts. You can also use ciao if you are an adult and are talking to a child, or if you are a young boy or girl and are talking to someone your age.
BUONGIORNO → you can use buongiorno during the day and in formal contexts. You can also use it with people you have just met or you barely know, with your teachers and with strangers.
BUONASERA → buonasera is used during the evening in formal situations. Like buongiorno, you need to use it with people you are not intimate with.
SALVE → the greeting that ‘saves’ you. You can use salve when you want to be polite but not too formal, according to the context. Like ciao, salve is used both during the day and the evening, but with people you are not intimate with when you don’t want to sound too formal.
Now that you know how to say hello in Italian, I would like to give you a small and simple exercise:
think about the people you meet during the day, like your friends and parents, your boss or the cashier at the supermarket. What greeting would you use with each of them?
You can write your answer in a comment or email me to receive a feedback.
See you soon! 🙂
How To Say Hello in Italian — Weilà!
Weilà weilà raga! This blog post correlates with the first episode of my Traveler’s Italian series. I’ve found it helpful to have a written version of something I learn in a video. I hope this post will serve that very purpose for you. Feel free to take a look around my website to learn more about what I do on YouTube, including my private tutoring sessions.
Before we get into everything, let’s cover the difference between Formal/Polite and Informal speech in Italian:
- Formal or Polite language is used with anyone you want to show respect for or to be polite with. (i.e. people who are older than you, your teacher, your boss, people you meet for the first time, etc).
- Informal or Casual language is used with anyone you already know or with anyone that you don’t have to be formal with. (i.e. people your own age, little children, your friends and family, your classmates and colleagues, etc). The reason why I say people your own age is because I’ve found in my experience that even when I don’t know someone, if we’re the same age we tend to use the informal with each other. Same goes with little children, sometimes you don’t feel the need to be formal with them. But this really depends on the situation, every situation is different.)
Let’s now jump into the words and phrases I went over in the video:
- Buongiorno — Hello (formal), Good morning, Good day
- Buon pomeriggio — Good afternoon
- Buonasera — Good evening (the appropriate Hello when it’s night time)
- Buonanotte — Good night (you’d only say this before going to sleep)
- Salve — Hello (alternative, formal. Comes from Latin.)
- Ciao — Hi / Bye (informal)
- Arrivederci — Goodbye (formal)
Saying «How are you»
- Come sta? — How are you (formal)
- Come stai? — How are you (informal)
- Come state? — How are you (all/guys)
- Sto bene, grazie — I’m good, thanks
- E Lei? — And you? (formal)
- E tu? — And you? (informal)
- E voi? — And you (all/guys)?
Saying «Thank you & Please»
- Grazie — Thank you
- Grazie mille — Thank you very much
- Prego — You’re welcome
- Di niente — It’s nothing / No problem (informal)
- Per favore — Please
- Per piacere — Please
- Piacere! — Nice to meet you / Pleasure to meet you
Saying «Excuse me»
- Mi scusi — Excuse me (formal)
- Scusa — Excuse me (informal)
- Scusate — Excuse me (to a group of people)
- Mi dispiace — I’m sorry
- Arrivederci — Goodbye (formal)
- Ciao — Bye (informal)
- Ci vediamo — See you soon
- A presto — See you soon (informal)
Whether you’re a new student of Italian or are about to embark on an amazing trip to Italy, have a great time! Buon viaggio!
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